So your friendships and your relationships are supposed to contribute to you, who you are and who you aspire to be. They are supposed to lift you and encourage you and inspire you. And you are supposed to do the same for them. They are not supposed to detract from you and suck the life out of you, nor are you supposed to feed off them. This does happen, because I see it all the time and, well, it’s sad. If you find yourself in a situation where your friends or your significant other are acting to your detriment, or theirs; get up, get out, and move on. No good or growth can ever come from a situation like that that.
As you were.